By William Madouk<\/p>\n
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Rampant cases of suicide among women in Warrap state has prompted United Nations Mission in South Sudan to convene a debate on taboo-laden mental health issues.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n According to the UN, at least four suicide cases were reported in February alone; the heartbreaking instances are aggravated by stigma associated with mental health issues and as a result of lack of response from local authorities and community members, alike.<\/p>\n For instance; just before dawn on a February morning, a smell of burning thatched house, suddenly filled the air. Neighbours immediately rushed to the scene, and yet they arrived too late.<\/p>\n However, inside what used to be a home, they found charred remains of a young woman and her children.<\/p>\n \u201cShe never spoke of the deep pain she must have been going through, but the day before she took her life, her husband brought home a new wife,\u201d said one of the neighbors who made the macabre discovery.<\/p>\n Unfortunately, this tragedy is part of what appears to be a growing trend in Warrap State. Three comparable examples of women taking their own lives, and sometimes those of their children, occurred in February alone.<\/p>\n In an effort to break the taboo surrounding psychological suffering and its often fatal consequences, the Kuajok field office of the UNMISS – decided to make the most of International Women’s Day by raising awareness about emotional distress, its causes, and its effects.<\/p>\n Survivors, advocates for women’s rights, and community members spoke openly about their own or others’ suffering during an all-female community plenary discussion at the Kuajok Women and Girls’ Friendly Center, a safe space built with peacekeeping mission funding.<\/p>\n The event was also attended by neighbours, police, courts, and traditional leaders, just to mention but a few.<\/p>\n Adultery, sexual or other types of assault and abuse, and husbands adding or replacing an existing wife with a new and frequently younger ones are also contributing factors to distress among South Sudanese women and girls.<\/p>\n In her remark, a women’s rights advocate highlighted that, based on her considerable experience speaking with impacted families, males ascribe women’s suicide to their weakness rather than abuse, mistreatment or desertion.<\/p>\n \u201cThere is no sympathy; on the contrary, many families are ashamed of even mentioning the name of a daughter who has killed herself,\u201d she said<\/p>\n \u201cNobody asks themselves what has pushed a woman or girl to commit suicide. Nobody discusses how they could have helped before disaster strikes,\u201d she added.<\/p>\n A recent case provides a textbook example. When a well-known general found out that his daughter had ended her life, he turned grief into punishment.<\/p>\n \u201cHe considered it an insult to his name. Instead of checking on the mental health of his other daughters, he had them arrested and thrown in jail, without any kind of trial,\u201d a social worker familiar with the tragedy said.<\/p>\n Women\u2019s hopes of justice are frequently shattered if and when their grievances are brought before the traditional, male-dominated courts they are referred to.<\/p>\n \u201cWhen I had been assaulted and went to court, they laughed at me,\u201d a young woman from Kuajok said. \u201cThe chief told me \u2018It\u2019s better you just marry him, at least he will take care of you\u2019\u201d.<\/p>\n Such attitudes among law enforcers mean that most families choose to settle incidents of rape or abuse by means of forced marriages.<\/p>\n \u201cMy parents told me this was better than being known as a girl who went to court. They said I should accept my fate,\u201d another survivor said, with a chief from a traditional court admitting that the justice system is biased.<\/p>\n \u201cThe court is for men. Women, we tend to believe, solve things within the home and that\u2019s it, but maybe we need to listen more,\u201d chief pondered.<\/p>\n But what comes first: talking or being prepared to listen?<\/p>\n \u201cPsychosocial support is desperately needed, but what can we do to prevent suicides if we don\u2019t talk about these issues? It\u2019s deeply frustrating,\u201d admitted a counsellor specialized in traumas.<\/p>\n UNMISS Gender Affairs Officer, Roda Sube believes in women’s right to life, dignity, and a more positive self-image.<\/p>\n \u201cIf a woman has agreed to be a second or third wife, why does she feel that she must kill herself when a fourth or fifth is brought? It is often because she believes that she has no other identity, no other future outside of marriage. We need to change that mindset.\u201d<\/p>\n Another survivor who took part in the conversation, now works for a women’s rights organization, concurred with Ms. Sube’s “diagnosis”.<\/p>\n \u201cIf someone had just told me that I could stand on my own I wouldn\u2019t have spent so many nights wishing that I was dead. Now I understand and know that I deserve to live, and that makes all the difference in the world.\u201d<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" By William Madouk Rampant cases of suicide among women in Warrap state has prompted United Nations Mission in South Sudan to convene a debate on taboo-laden mental health issues. 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