OpEd

Peace Cannot Be Forced

 

Deng Olesmo

 

It Is Born from Understanding, Forgiveness, and the Sacrifice of a Community.

In a world where conflicts often erupt and violence is seen as a solution; it is crucial to remember that true peace cannot come by force.

No amount of military strength, political pressure, or external control can create genuine harmony among people.

Peace is not a command; it is an outcome a fragile yet powerful state that can only be achieved when individuals and communities choose to

understand one another, admit their mistakes, forgive each other, and sacrifice personal gains for the collective good.

Understanding as the Foundation of Peace

Lasting peace begins with understanding. Many conflicts, whether in families, neighbourhoods, or nations, stem from misunderstanding and lack of

communication.

When people fail to listen to each other, fear and mistrust grow. True understanding requires dialogue, empathy, and the willingness to see beyond

one’s own perspective.

Communities that strive for peace must make deliberate efforts to engage in honest conversations.

This means allowing every voice to be heard, respecting differences, and seeking common ground instead of deepening divides. Through

understanding, people can bridge the gaps that lead to hostility and create a shared vision of harmony.

Admitting Mistakes and Accepting Responsibility

Another essential step toward peace is self-reflection.

Far too often, individuals and groups cling to pride, refusing to acknowledge their wrongdoings. Yet, peace cannot coexist with denial and blame-

shifting. True reconciliation begins when people have the courage to say, “I was wrong.”

By accepting responsibility for past actions whether those actions caused hurt, injustice, or division communities can begin to heal.

This act of humility not only repairs broken trust but also demonstrates a commitment to moving forward together.

The Power of Forgiveness

Even when understanding is achieved and mistakes are acknowledged, peace cannot take root without forgiveness.

Holding onto resentment is like carrying a heavy burden; it prevents growth and harmony.

Forgiveness, on the other hand, is an act of liberation t frees both the forgiver and the forgiven.

Communities that choose forgiveness over vengeance break the cycle of conflict.

This does not mean forgetting past wrongs or ignoring justice, but rather, it means letting go of hatred and choosing reconciliation. Forgiveness is a

brave step toward rebuilding relationships and nurturing unity.

Sacrifice for the Sake of Peace

Peace also requires sacrifice. To maintain harmony, individuals may need to set aside personal ambitions, ego, or the desire for revenge.

A peaceful community is one where people prioritize collective well-being over individual gain.

Sacrifice might mean giving time to mediate disputes, sharing resources with neighbours in need, or standing up against actions that sow division.

While these sacrifices may seem small compared to the larger goal of peace, they are the building blocks of a stronger, united society.

Peace as a Shared Responsibility

Ultimately, peace is not the responsibility of leaders alone it belongs to every member of a community.

Governments and organizations can create conditions for peace, but only people themselves can live it and sustain it.

Communities must work hand in hand, teaching the next generation that conflict is not resolved with force but through dialogue, understanding, and

forgiveness.

Elders must pass on wisdom about cooperation, while youth must embrace ideals of unity and compassion.

A Path Toward True Harmony

Peace cannot be achieved overnight, nor can it be imposed from outside.

It is a continuous journey that demands patience, humility, and resilience.

Every act of understanding, every admission of fault, every moment of forgiveness, and every sacrifice made for unity contributes to a peaceful future.

 

In these challenging times, let us remember: Peace is not the silence of guns or the absence of conflict.

It is the presence of justice, mutual respect, and genuine reconciliation.

It is when people truly understand one another, forgive past mistakes, and willingly sacrifice for the common good.

Only then can communities and indeed, the entire world experience lasting peace that no force could ever achieve.

The writer can be reach at dengolesmo5@gmail.com

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